Handles

In life, we generally come across many issues, which apparently we don’t know how to handle. From now on, lets get started. Lets handle things wisely. Use a handle to handle, if you got no handle.. lets use both hands. Lets put all our effort in to tackle situations and not run away!

Ever wondered how dangerous can it be to pour tea from a pot without a handle? Your hand could burn, tea could be spilled all over….woah! A lot of damage. Use a cloth please. Think of alternatives. If your pot ain’t got any handle, can’t you handle it? Of course you can. 

Human is all together a different kind of species. A human can do wonders. Just the need for processing that gray matter needs to be accomplished first and totally believing in yourself.

Everyone comes across many issues in life. Issues at workplace, in relationships, in family, in studies, with friends , even with YOURSELF.

Start by thinking SIMPLE and EASY.

Its not always that a difficult road shall be taken to accomplish something. If you got an option of an easy path. Take it ,friend.

Stop COMPLICATING and making a mess out of everything. 

Start trusting yourself. You are your own’s priority. Take your own burden . Handle your own burden. Stop being dependent.

If you got some opinion, stick to it.

One can think a lot. Like about everything. You can have an issue with every single thing. Be it about a dress or about what will others think. You will start losing confidence. You will start feeling low. You will start judging yourself ( This is one last thing anyone could do to ruin their perfectly set simple happy life). This gray matter will finally work one fine day and set you in place.

Why care about the world? Why care who thinks what . Why ask everyone what they think and why? Why can’t you simply trust yourself and take your remote buttons in your hand. Why can’t you take control of yourself?

Is it  that hard, to deal with YOUR OWN problems? If you landed in a pit, get out of it all by yourself.

Stop looking for handles everywhere. You can simply push or pull a door without a handle. Yes, effort will be required. But that is how life works too. Also, ever tried lifting a box with some help.? Yeah, load on you decreases but imbalance is created if not coordinated. We tend to make other humans our handles. We rely on them. This sometimes aggravates things. Obviously friends can help. Just choose your handles wisely. Try handling things all by yourself once. You won’t be left to complain about it then. You will try and try. You will become mature and wise.

YOU WILL BECOME ONE FINE HANDLER. 

-Ananya Gupta